10/29/23

Celebrating our Loved Ones on Dia de Los Muertos



 


Dia de los Muertos, also known as Day of the Dead, is a traditional Mexican holiday that is celebrated annually on November 1st and 2nd. The holiday is a time to honor and remember loved ones who have passed away. Here’s a brief overview of the holiday:

Origination:

The holiday has its roots in ancient Aztec culture, where it was believed that the dead could return to the living world for one day each year. The Aztecs would celebrate the lives of their deceased loved ones with offerings of food, drink, and flowers.

History

After the Spanish conquest of Mexico in the 16th century, the holiday became more closely associated with the Catholic All Saints’ Day and All Souls’ Day. Today, it is celebrated throughout Mexico and in many other parts of the world.

Significance:

Dia de los Muertos is a time to celebrate life and death. It is believed that the spirits of the dead return to the world of the living for one day each year to be with their families and friends. The holiday is a way to honor and remember loved ones who have passed away.

Important aspects of the holiday

One of the most important aspects of Dia de los Muertos is the creation of an altar, or ofrenda, which is used to honor deceased loved ones. The altar typically includes photographs of the deceased, candles, flowers (especially marigolds), food, and drink. Other important aspects of the holiday include sugar skulls (calaveras), which are decorated with colorful icing and used as offerings on the altar, and papel picado, which are colorful paper cutouts that are hung up around the altar.  Add incense, water (to quench thirst after a long journey), salt (to purify and cleanse), and personal items that belonged to the deceased to help make your altar more personal.  My wife and I visited a local Southern California farm to get our freshly cut Marigolds for set up of our altar.



Holiday festivals:

Dia de los Muertos is a vibrant and colorful holiday that is celebrated throughout the United States. Here are some of the best Dia de los Muertos festivals in the US, along with their dates, times, and locations:

  1. Hollywood Forever Cemetery in Los Angeles, California: This music-filled Day of the Dead celebration takes place every year at the Hollywood Forever Cemetery. Attendees can expect to find colorful altars, Aztec dancers, and a pyramid-shaped mausoleum photobooth hosted by Netflix. The event is held on November 2nd.  Hollywood Forever Cemetery

  2. Muertos Fest in San Antonio, Texas: This Day of the Dead celebration takes place in the La Villita Historic Arts Village and features drummers dressed as skeletons, traditional Aztec dancers, and puppeteers animating ornate skeleton puppets. The event is held on November 1st and 2nd.  Muertos Fest

  3. Day of the Dead Chicago in Chicago, Illinois: Held at the National Museum of Mexican Art, this Day of the Dead celebration immerses guests in a full art experience. The museum and surrounding area are turned into an elaborate work of art, featuring visual displays that reveal the story of the Day of the Dead. The event is held on November 2nd. Day of the Dead Chicago

  4. Florida Day of the Dead in Fort Lauderdale, Florida: This event features a huge parade called the Skeleton Processional that pays homage to traditional cultural elements of the holiday while incorporating skeleton alligators, sea turtles, pirates, and mermaids. The event is held on November 2nd.  Florida Day of the Dead

  5. Day of the Dead San Diego in San Diego, California: This event features a procession that starts at Sherman Heights Community Center and ends at Chicano Park. Attendees can expect to find live music, food vendors, and a community altar where they can leave offerings for their loved ones who have passed away. The event is held on November 1st. Day of the Dead San Diego

  6. Day of the Dead Festival in New York City, New York: This festival features live music, traditional Mexican food, face painting, and a community altar where attendees can leave offerings for their loved ones who have passed away. The event is held on November 2nd.  Day of the Dead Festival

  7. Muertos y Marigold Parade in Albuquerque, New Mexico: This parade features floats, mariachi bands, Aztec dancers, and giant puppets that celebrate life and death. The parade ends with a celebration at historic Barelas neighborhood with food vendors and live music. The event is held on November 2nd. Muertos y Marigold Parade

  8. Tucson’s All Souls Procession in Tucson, Arizona: This procession features thousands of participants who walk through downtown Tucson carrying candles and wearing costumes to honor their loved ones who have passed away. The procession ends with a finale performance that includes fire dancers and acrobats. The event is held on November 6th. Tucson All Souls Procession

  9. San Francisco in California: San Francisco has several events throughout the city to celebrate Dia de los Muertos including art exhibits, live music performances, and community altars where attendees can leave offerings for their loved ones who have passed away.  San Francisco Day of the Dead

  10. Orange County in Irvine, California, University of California, Irvine Department of Sociology in partnership with Northgate Gonzalez Market is hosting Dia de los Mertos 2023.  Guests can participate in the virtual community altar, enjoy Aztec dance and Ballet Folklorico performances and a Mariachi concert by the Grammy Award-winning Mariachi Divas while visiting the face-painting and sugar skull crafts booths.  UC Irvine & Northgate Gonzalez Market

Please note that dates and times are subject to change due to weather or other unforeseen circumstances. Search your area for local times, locations and events happening to join the celebration.  You may see a Dia de Los Muertos celebration on You Tube below.


The passing of our loved ones is ever so painful in the moment.  However, their traditions and memories while with us and how they impacted each of our lives can live on forever through this glorious celebration!  Take part in a festival near you and remember those in your life who have passed on to protect and guide us through our moral life on Earth.  Blessings to all of you!

For Dia de Los Muertos family fun entertainment, watch “The Book of Life” on Max and “Coco” on Disney +.  

Written by FTM Partner & Staff Writer

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10/25/23

Family Fun Activities for the Holidays





The holidays are rapidly approaching and many families are looking for fun activities to entertain their house guests.  Keeping the little ones entertained and Grandpa out of the kitchen while the food prep and cooking ensues can be the difference between a burnt bird and a delicious meal that has Emeril Lagasse blushing with pride.

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Here are our Top 10 family traditions that you can try with your family during the upcoming holidays.

  1. Family Game Night: This is a great way to bond with your family and have fun together. You can play board games, card games, or even video games.  We recommend Monopoly, Uno, Sorry, Mario Cart and Madden 24
  2. Family Movie Night: Pick a movie that everyone will enjoy and watch it together. Don’t forget the popcorn!  We recommend The Nightmare Before Christmas, Holidate, Love Hard , Trains Planes and Automobiles and National Lampoons Christmas Vacation.  For a G Rated evening, try A Charlie Brown Christmas, Frosty the Snowman, A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving and Free Birds
  3. Family Outings: Go on a hike, visit a museum, or go to the beach. Spending time together outside of the house is a great way to bond.
  4. Silly Games: Play games like charades, Pictionary, or even Twister. These games are sure to bring laughter and joy to your family.
  5. Cooking Activities: Cook a meal together or bake some cookies. This is a great way to teach your kids how to cook and spend quality time together.
  6. Family Crafts: Make some crafts together like painting, drawing, or even scrapbooking. This is a great way to get creative and make memories.
  7. Local Orange County, CA Upcoming Events: Check out local events like the Newport Beach Christmas Boat Parade or the Laguna Beach Festival of Arts. These events are sure to be fun for the whole family.  In Los Angeles, walk along the cannels of Naples Island in Long Beach to see an elaborate display of Christmas Lights or the iconic LA Zoo lights in Griffith Park.
  8. Family Sports Day: Play some sports together like basketball, soccer, or even frisbee. This is a great way to get some exercise and have fun together.
  9. Family Talent Show: Have everyone in the family show off their talents like singing, dancing, or even telling jokes. This is a great way to showcase everyone’s unique skills.
  10. Family Volunteer Day: Volunteer at a local charity or organization together as a family. This is a great way to give back to your community and teach your kids about the importance of helping others.

For Thanksgiving-specific traditions:

  • Turkey Trot: Participate in a local turkey trot race on Thanksgiving morning.
  • Thanksgiving Dinner: Host a potluck-style Thanksgiving dinner where everyone brings their favorite dish.
  • Thanksgiving Crafts: Make some Thanksgiving-themed crafts like handprint turkeys or paper pumpkins.  Here is one of our family favorites from our past, Turkey Craft

For Christmas-specific traditions:

  • Christmas Lights Tour: Drive around town and look at Christmas lights.
  • Christmas Caroling: Go caroling in your neighborhood.
  • Christmas Tree Decorating: Decorate your Christmas tree as a family.

Building family traditions creates a lifetime of memories that get passed down for generations to come.  Set your family legacy by using these ideas to help you create some fun family traditions!


Written by FTM Partner and Contributor

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Visiting the California Botanical Garden

The California Botanic Garden is a botanical garden located in Claremont, California, just south of the San Gabriel foothills. The garden is spread across 86 acres and is the largest botanic garden dedicated to California native plants. It has curated collections of more than 22,000 California native plants, some of which are rare or endangered. The garden displays about 2000 taxon of California plants and includes those native to the California Floristic Province.

The garden has several special features that make it a must-visit destination. It has a unique fruit grove, a massive 11,000 square foot organic vegetable garden, the Channel Islands garden, an extensive cycad collection, a conifer collection, a palm grove, community gardens, and a children’s playground. The garden also offers events and classes throughout the year that celebrate and explore our connections to California native plants and the larger natural world. Some upcoming events include:

  • Herb Walk: Medicinal Plants of California on November 4th.
  • First Sunday Family Friendly Bird Walks hosted by the Pomona Valley Audubon Society on November 5th.
  • Saging the World on November 12th.
  • Watercolor Botanicals: Autumn Sepia on November 18th.
  • California Native Plants for Bonsai on November 19th.

For more information about upcoming events and classes, please visit their website at California Botanical Garden

Some must-see attractions within the garden include the rose garden, herb garden, butterfly garden, and delphinium border. The gift shop at the garden offers a variety of items such as books, jewelry, pottery, and other unique gifts. The shop also has a wide selection of plants for sale.

The California Botanic Garden is an excellent place for families to visit. It provides resources to help people develop and maintain native gardens on their own. The garden also offers guided walks and tours, exhibitions, school tours and programs, learning@home event calendar, and rentals.

We hope this information helps you plan your visit to the California Botanic Garden!

California Botanical Garden
‍1500 N College Avenue
Claremont CA 91711
(909) 625 8767
info@calbg.org

Top 10 Holiday Travel Destinations for Families Who Just Need to Get Away!


Let's face it, the holidays are right around the corner.  With Thanksgiving only 29 days away, Hanukkah 43 days away and Kwanzaa & Christmas 61 days away, families are starting to make their holiday plans.  If you are like us, maybe you don't have extended family nearby or maybe their finances just can't stretch past $5.50 per gallon gasoline in Southern California.  Sometimes, we just need a nice, quiet, relaxing holiday vacation that is only your immediate household and doesn't break the bank.

Even if your extended family is available, why not enjoy the Holidays in a home away from home.  Pamper yourself and consider some of our favorite locations, your coworkers will thank you for taking a super relaxing vacation and the family will be over the moon excited about this special holiday plan.

Here are the Top 10 resort style places to stay for the Holidays.  All of these resorts can be reserved on travel sites such as Travelocity or Hotels.com.

  1. Alisal Guest Ranch & Resort in Solvang, California: This resort offers a variety of activities for families, including horseback riding, fishing, and golfing. The resort also has a spa and a poolVisit them at Alisal Ranch
  2. Sea Island Resort in Sea Island, Georgia: This resort is located on a private island and offers a variety of activities for families, including golfing, tennis, and horseback riding. The resort also has a spa and a poolVisit them at 
  3. Paws Up Resort in Greenough, Montana: This resort offers a variety of activities for families, including horseback riding, fly fishing, and hot air balloon rides. The resort also has a spa and a poolVisit them at Paws Up
  4. Sanderling Resort in Duck, North Carolina: This resort is located on the Outer Banks and offers a variety of activities for families, including kayaking, paddle boarding, and surfing. The resort also has a spa and a pool.  Visit them at Sanderling Resort
  5. The Osthoff Resort in Elkhart Lake, Wisconsin: This resort offers a variety of activities for families, including ice skating, snowshoeing, and cross-country skiing. The resort also has a spa and a poolVisit them at Osthoff Resort
  6. Sunriver Resort in Sunriver, Oregon: This resort offers a variety of activities for families, including skiing, snowboarding, and ice skating. The resort also has a spa and a pool Visit them at Sunriver Resort
  7. Kingsmill Resort in Williamsburg, Virginia: This resort offers a variety of activities for families, including golfing, tennis, and kayaking. The resort also has a spa and a poolVisit them at Kingsmill Resort
  8. Nemacolin Woodlands Resort in Farmington, Pennsylvania: This resort offers a variety of activities for families, including skiing, snowboarding, and dog sledding. The resort also has a spa and a poolVisit them at Nemacolin Woodlands Resort
  9. The Broadmoor in Colorado Springs, Colorado: This resort offers a variety of activities for families, including hiking, fishing, and horseback riding. The resort also has a spa and a poolVisit them at The Broadmoor
  10. The Ritz-Carlton Reynolds in Greensboro, Georgia: This resort is located on Lake Oconee and offers a variety of activities for families, including boating, fishing, and golfing. The resort also has a spa and a poolVisit them at The Ritz-Carlton Reynolds

We hope this helps you plan your Holiday getaway!  Wishing you and your family health, happiness and prosperity this holiday season.

Written by FTM partner & staff writter

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